on April 17, 2011
with Alvin
part one
下午五點五十七分,我:
『我現在聽著隻能勇敢,在細雨的小鎮,任捷運帶我遠離河岸。雖然會流淚,但是我知道沒有什麼是永恆的,包括悲傷。祝福你。:) 』
下午六點三分,銘:
『半小時前我在客運上聽著隻能勇敢返回中壢,我們的行程好相像喔XD。Thank you, really! 我也知道了不管怎樣都要記得把微笑帶上,因為或許樂觀和快樂是會弄假成真的 :) 』
晚上九點四十二分,我:
『年紀越大越明白兩個人要走在一起是多麼不容易的事。人生好長,生命要完整,好不容易。不管現在困擾你的,是友誼還是愛情,隻要看到會開心,想到會微笑,就是真的了。 :) 』
on January 21, 2012
with Alvin
part two
Alvin:
"We do strange things to people we love. We lie to them, we lie for them."
Arina:
"Lie for me is one thing, lie to me is another!"
Alvin:
"chances are people lie to you for you (can't find a way to make this less complicated : P)"
Arina:
"now i realize why men always lie, no matter how nice & qualified i thought he was. u cant find a real honest one, but he is still nice, & u still have to choose to trust...gush! this is hard..."
Alvin:
"lies are not necessarily bad, I suppose. like what we call "white lie" and some of them just not need to be discovered. I agree with you that there's no a real honest one. anyway, being "too honest" isn't a virtue : P"
Arina:
"that's interesting, fully- honest isnt a virtue..."
Alvin:
"i've never been a fan of fully-honest, but that's just my own opinion"
Arina:
"it's just that i wish i could find a real honest guy on earth, yet somehow realize that none a single soul is real honest, also whether he is real honest or not is not exactly the sufficient condition within a relationship. the question is: where does the mutual trust come from? based on what?"
Alvin:
"based on love..."
thank you, my dear boy!